The End of the 101 in 1,001

Thanks for this one, Allison!

On January 2nd 2010, I created a list of 101 goals that I thought I could accomplish in 1,001 days. I remember writing the list as a 20 year old with no real direction in life. It seemed, at the time, like the compass I needed to figure out where I was and where I needed to go. Maybe this is just the way I see it now; the amount of CHANGE I’ve gone through in 2.75 years is staggering, and I know that I owe so much of it to the work I put into this wonderful list.

Somewhere in that time I added a few extra goals and turned my list into 111 items to accomplish (although the plan was always to complete as close to 101 of them as possible) and later, I would begin to include other lists into my life; my 23 Before 23 & endless New Years’ resolutions. Yet this list of 101 goals was always imminently in my mind as something that NEEDED to be done. I grew out of some goals- 22 of them to be exact- and that’s fine with me. I didn’t know it at the start, but changing your mind about accomplishing something isn’t BAD. I had just set my sights on something bigger and better.

The last official day of the challenge was September 28th, but I knew before that day how many goals would be finished. The final tally is 78 of 111. Including the 22 goals that I have no more interest in accomplishing, that pushes my total up to 100/111. Those last eleven goals have been moved to my Life List, which is now the last remaining set of goals I have to accomplish (other than my New Year’s resolutions) and for now, I am totally okay with that.

To a certain extent, I already miss my 101. I’ve talked about it, thought about it, discussed it, and planned things because of it for SO LONG, it feels like saying goodbye to an old friend. It became more than one hundred and one things that I wanted to cross off. It became a starting point for so many other fantastic things that would come afterwards. It was a time of Great Change and I’m so proud of saying that I accomplished 80% of what I had originally set out to do- thinking I’d barely get through half.

It may just look like a list of things, but in the last 3 years it became more than that. I was able to actually do THINGS that I had always thought about doing but that I always forgot because they didn’t seem important enough. I was also reminded each time I opened that list of the bigger goals I hoped to cross off- going vegetarian, take more chances, post almost every single day on this blog for an entire year, and maybe the biggest of all, #86. Choose a program in school & stick with it… And be happy with that choice. This was such a big and important thing for me- to find direction in my life with school- something that felt so impossible to accomplish and yet here I am, living that exact moment, 3 years later.

A lot of people will tell you goals aren’t worth the effort. To those people, I say; you have NO idea what you’re missing. It may not be for you, but for me? It changed my entire perspective on life. This very blog became the space it is right now because of that list. I know it wasn’t the 101 goals that made all these things happen- I did- but in a way, I’m still so thankful that the idea of the challenge fell upon me when it did. I’m excited to see what I choose to do next. I debated for a long time whether or not I would write another list, and something tells me that I probably will. For right now, I’m content to take a couple months off & re-evaluate come the new year.

To see the completed list, click here!

Have you ever completed the 101 goals challenge or a similar one? How did it work for you?

30 Days & Counting

In exactly 30 days from today, my 101 Goals in 1,001 Days will be over. OVER! Where has time gone?! It practically seems like just last week that I was sitting at my desk, randomly browsing the internet, when I stumbled across my very first list of 101 Goals by another blogger.

& yet, I know without a doubt that I am a completely different person than the girl who wrote that list nearly 3 years ago. I was fresh in my twenties, completely unsure where to go in life, and really just trying to find SOMETHING to get me on the right track.

I haven’t looked at my 101 in a few months, fully knowing I would have no time to work on it while I traveled all summer. I thought today was the perfect opportunity to look at the goals I have yet to complete BUT still want to, one day.

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1. Get a tattoo

This has been a LONG time goal of mine… There are so many tattoos I want! I highly doubt I’ll get it done before the end of September, I’m still planning on doing it… Eventually!

4. Get a driver’s license.

I was originally planning to do that this summer, but once I realized I’d be gone for 2 months that didn’t work out. I would, however, like to do this before 2013 rolls around.

15. Go back to NYC

I didn’t think I’d do this one, but turns out? I will! I’m heading back to NYC the weekend of September 21st. Talk about good timing, right?

30. Learn to play a new instrument

I’ve been a music fan as long as I can remember. In high school I learned to play a slew of instruments, but the ones I always wished I had learned most were the piano and the violin. This is definitely still something I’d love to do in the future, although definitely not by the end of September.

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37. Learn to speak Spanish

This one has taken a backseat because of school, but still a goal of mine as well. I’d love to learn Spanish and/or Portuguese, considering my entire family can speak both except me!

42. Have a Lord of the Rings movie marathon

Not sure WHY I haven’t done this one yet, I have the movies and I LOVE the movies! I just need a day or two and I’m good. I haven’t watched the trilogy since they first came out!

49. Learn to knit

Definitely going on another list in the future as this is still a goal of mine. My grandmother was an amazing knitter and my mom is quite good too. I have all the materials, just need to sit down and do it!

56. Sleep under the stars

Pretty sure I wrote this in the hopes that I’d go camping, something I used to love when I was younger. I’d still love to one day soon!

57. Make a music scrapbook (a good way to keep all of my ticket stubs!)

I think I still want to do this one, as soon as I finish my travel scrapbooks. I’ve really had the best time making those so I think this one could still be fun when I get the chance.

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Let’s see how well I can complete my list by September 28th. Whatever happens though, I’ve already crossed off so many more goals than I had originally imagined,  I consider this 3-year-long project a success!  More on that in one month. :)

Have you ever written and completed a 101 Goals project or something similar?

June Goals: A Review

My completed itinerary that is now fully booked for Europe in August! AHH!

Spent some time decorating my room this month with memories from past travels. Can’t wait to add Brazil & Europe to the mix :)

June was going to be a quiet month for me, filled with lots of reading, reflecting & soaking up the sunshine. I wasn’t planning BIG things, so instead I organized a bunch of goals for myself in the hopes I’d get things done that I’ve been meaning to do for some time.

These things didn’t really happen.

Halfway through the month I started planning a spontaneous trip to South America and my life went into serious overdrive. In the last two weeks I’ve barely done ANYTHING except try and get my life in order before I leave Canada for six weeks.

Before the halfway point I did get a few things done, and when I had some down time in between my hectic days, I managed to do some things here and there. Let’s see how I did…

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1. Re-read the Harry Potter series

I was hoping to get to at least book 5 by the end of June, but that didn’t happen. I’m just starting book 4 & I took a small break where I read another book and a half… So technically I read like 4 and a half books this month but not the ones I’d planned on! It’s okay though, I’m 1/3 of the way there and I still fully plan on completing this during my vacation.

2. Get started on the Joy Equation

Technically I DID get started… But after Day 1 I forgot to continue! I only started this a few days before the middle of the month where things got crazy… I’m thinking I might take this with me to Brazil? I’ll have a lot of down time there! We’ll see.

3. Renew my license 

Nope. This has been pushed to September since I won’t be here at all this summer to actually complete this goal. SEPTEMBER THOUGH.

4. Finish my scrapbook

Not completed. I didn’t even attempt this one. To be fair, you really have to be in the mindset for a scrapbook and I just wasn’t. I had too many things going on and not enough time to sit down and do this.

5. Shop around for a photo album & a second scrapbook 

Done & done! I filled my new photo album with the thousand photos I had lying around & I bought a second scrapbook to keep for my upcoming summer. Hopefully it won’t take me a YEAR to do like my last one?!

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I wish I had the time to do more of these things, but sometimes life gets in the way and that’s okay with me. It’s not like I sat around and did NOTHING for a whole month. I’m going to be taking a break from monthly goals until September because I honestly don’t know what I’ll have time to do while I’m traveling. That being said, I’m still working on my Life List and my 101 in 1,001 which ends in September!

This summer I’m crossing off so many items from both of those lists, so I’m not too sad about the only half success of the goals I had set up for June. Honestly I accomplished 2 of the most important ones- reading Harry Potter & buying a photo album. Harry Potter is still ongoing which I knew would happen. The only other goal I’d really like to focus on this summer is my Joy Equation, so hopefully I’ll have time for that soon!

How did you do with your June goals?! Any plans for July?

Music and Travel

Lately, it feels like if I blink for a second too long, I might wake up from the dream that is my life. I barely have time to process everything that’s happening to me before something else equally amazing gets added onto the pile of THINGS that are HAPPENING to me.

On Thursday, 3 friends and decided we were going to New York City in September to see Bon Iver. Today? We bought our tickets and that was that. Now we just have the rest of our trip to plan! I’ve been wanting to go back to New York City ever since my first visit in 2008. It’s actually one of the goals on my 101 in 1,001 that I was beginning to believe I’d never complete. One of my good friends has a family house  where we’ll be staying for 2-3 days in September, one of those nights specifically to see Justin Vernon (otherwise known as Bon Iver).

If you’ve never heard of Justin Vernon, you are MISSING OUT. He is an amazing artist that I first discovered because of his amazing song ‘Skinny Love’. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t adore this song right away. I don’t know the rest of his music as well as I’d like to, but I fully plan on changing that by the time I see him at Radio City Hall in NYC. I do know it’s going to be an amazing and unforgettable concert, and I’m so excited to be able to say that I’m officially (and spontaneously!) taking another trip in 2012. That will bring the total count of actual vacations to FOUR for 2012. I don’t think I’ll be able to beat this year in my life ever again. I’m still hoping I will though. Either way, this will be an absolutely unforgettable year in my life.

I’ve had this picture stuck to my mirror for YEARS as a reminder that I want to go back. See you soon, NYC! 

In other music news, I attended one of my most anticipated concerts of the year last night. The Rocket Summer (one-man-band & musical genius Bryce Avary) played for almost 2 hours in Montreal and it was more than I could have ever imagined. I’ve only seen him play a short 30 minute set at Warped Tour a few years ago, and I couldn’t wait to see what kind of full live show he put on. I was NOT disappointed in the least.

It started off with Jenia & I interviewing Bryce for CONFRONT Magazine. We’re both long-time fans of his work and he was one of the nicest, most genuine people I’ve met in a long time. He had inspiring things to say about his music and he made it into more than just an interview. There is nothing I love more than meeting my favorite artists and finding out that they are down to earth and SO deserving of all their success. If possible, the combination of meeting him & listening to him play has made me fall more in love with his music than ever before. I sincerely hope he comes back very soon!

I also absolutely loved one of the opening bands called ‘States‘ and ended up buying all their records. Female vocalist Mindy White blew me away almost immediately. I love her style of voice, which reminds me a lot of Hayley Williams from Paramore. I’m currently listening to their album ‘Born to Run’ and it’s just fantastic. So happy I bought it.

That’s basically all I’ve got for now! This weekend is for blaring music, preparing for Brazil, shopping for last minute things, seeing friends, writing, and celebrating CANADA DAY on Sunday!

How have you been? What are your weekend plans? What music are you listening to today?

June: Goals

In May, I took a MUCH needed month off from goals. I needed the time after the end of semester to decompress. I read the books I wanted to read & I didn’t have to worry about time limits to accomplish a single thing. I did a lot of living in the moment and enjoying the GORGEOUS weather.

Now that it’s June I want to get back into the swing of things. I’ve openly quit my ’12 Changes’ project and I’ve accepted that there are a handful of goals I won’t be accomplishing on my 23 Before 23 in the next 5 weeks. What this means is that I’ve opened up my time to accomplish things that I WANT to accomplish, rather than just following a list. 

It seems that the month of June is going to be a bit more low key for me than May, so I’m hoping to work on some personal projects. I’m going to have a significant amount of time off before I leave for my trip in August and I want to take advantage of it. I can honestly say that May was an AMAZING month for me and I want June to feel just as special, for its own reasons.

Here are some goals and intentions that I have for the month. 

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1. Re-read the Harry Potter series

Number 6 on my 101 in 1,001 list of goals is to re-read this series. I wrote that list almost THREE years ago. It’s been a long time coming & I finally found a friend who wanted to read them with me. I know that I ADORE these books, but I always have trouble re-reading novels when I have so many that I still want to read for the first time. That being said, I know that at some points, it will be like reading it for the first time again because I’ve forgotten so many of the little details- and I can’t wait to get to those parts! I don’t think I’ll finish all 7 in June, but ideally I’d like to.

2. Get started on the Joy Equation

I purchased the Joy Equation from Stratejoy a couple months back, printed out all my journal prompts & stashed it away until I had the time and the inspiration to do it. I’ve been getting an itch to really WRITE lately, and I think this is going to be a great place to start! At some point this month, I want to take out those journal prompts from my bookshelf and spend some time reflecting on my answers to them.

3. Renew my license 

Another goal on my 101, I should have done this a LONG time ago. I made myself a promise that I’d try and get my license again this summer, but with my trip taking up a whole month I’ve drastically cut down my license-getting time. I need to renew my license early on in the month so I can get plenty of practice time in. Ideally I’d love to have learned the basics of driving a manual car by the time July rolls around.

4. Finish my scrapbook

A couple months ago I finally had an entire free weekend to start my scrapbook for my trip to Greece last summer. This was a project I wanted to do ever since I actually LEFT for that vacation in August 2011, but I didn’t have time to do it until March/April. I’ve been so incredibly busy that I haven’t had time to do the last 4 pages since then, but I’d like to do that this month. I think closing that chapter on my life will prepare me for this years’ Europe trip!

5. Shop around for a photo album & a second scrapbook 

One of the goals on my 23 Before 23 is to buy a photo album and fill in all the pages. I’ve done a really good job lately of printing out my favorite pictures, but now I have hundreds upon hundreds of photos and nowhere to put them. I’ve been looking for a good album but never went out of my way to actually shop for it. I really want to do that in June so I can properly store all those memories.

I also want to pick up another scrapbook. I’ve LOVED putting together the one for Greece, and I had a couple other scrapbooking ideas. I highly doubt I’ll have time to actually make a second one this month, but I’d like to get those ideas together and at least start accumulating the necessary materials!

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By the end of May, my intention is to have completed my 23 Before 23 to the best of my ability. I keep forgetting that this is the LAST MONTH of the project so I want to spend a lot of time working on those goals. They’re all things that really represent ME and that’s what I want the month of June to be about! 

What are your goals and intentions for June?!

 

The 411 on the 101

This month, I am taking a huge break from goals. I decided this earlier in the week when I wrote about giving up my 12 Changes. I was so immediately RELIEVED after writing those words. I thought to myself “when did you start achieving goals as a chore, rather than as something that makes you happy?”

So I’m taking May as a guilt-free month off. I didn’t write about any specific goals for May, and I fully plan on keeping it that way. That being said, I’m trying to find the love in my goals again. When I look at the lists I have made for myself, I am still so happy & proud of all I’ve done, but mostly I am excited for what I have left to do.

My 101 in 1,001 is coming to an end in FIVE MONTHS. I still have about 30 or so goals to complete. I know they won’t all be finished, and I a 100% okay with that. In fact, a lot of the ones that are left are the goals I’ve outgrown. I remember who I was when I wanted to complete them 3 years ago, but that just isn’t me anymore.

There are still a few on there that I want to complete. Even if my deadline comes up and I don’t get them done, I know I will one day- hopefully soon. Ironically, it’s #1 on my list that I want to accomplish most. I guess some things don’t change? Getting a tattoo is something I have wanted for SO long. I now want THREE tattoos- one for each of my big passions in life. I should probably start with one though, right?

#4 on my list will happen in the next few months. I’ve told just about everyone I know that I fully plan on getting my license this summer. With my job, school, and just the fact that I’m getting older, it’s time I pass my license & get my own little car. I really WANT to drive, it’s the time to physically accomplish this goal that has been missing. This summer, it is definitely happening.

There are some silly things on my list that feel more like little nagging tasks, but I still want to do them. Things like putting together a music scrapbook with all my ticket stubs, sleeping under the stars, having a Lord of the Rings movie marathon & baking a rainbow cake. They’re all fun little things that I still want to make time for. Now that my list is dwindling down to the last few things, I feel like it’ll be much easier to cross these things off. As long as I have the motivation to do these things for MYSELF, I know I’ll get them done.

I’ve had SO much fun completing the other 60 or so items on my 101. I have learned so many things; having multiple reading goals is never a good idea, creating nagging chores as items on a list will ensure that they’ll never get done, and making goals too long and boring to actually accomplish will mean the exact same thing. I look at some things on my list and think “what on EARTH were you thinking, self? Did you really want to watch the news every day for a month and KEEP TRACK OF IT?” At the same time though, I’m so happy that I wrote those goals to begin with. They gave me a starting point for setting goals, and some of the silly ones GOT DONE ANYWAY!

I’m excited to dedicate some time to my 101 list this summer. I think I can make good progress on a lot of the remaining goals that I’m still motivated to accomplish. Regardless of what happens between now and the end of semester, I already consider my very first list of 101 goals a HUGE success. When I originally wrote the list, I didn’t think I’d make any progress at all. I’ve still got a lot of work to do, but I’ve done so many of these things just for ME, and that’s how I know that I’ve been doing it right.

I can’t wait to see how many more things I cross off in this last stretch!

Have you ever written a 101 in 1,001? Would you ever consider doing one? 

Resolutions [A Quarterly Review]

At the beginning of January, I set myself up with a bunch of goals for 2012 and I thought it was high time I reviewed to see how I was doing! I have a sneaking suspicion that 1/4 into the year and I’m doing pretty badly, but I haven’t looked at my list in a while so hopefully I’ll feel re-inspired to complete my goals by the end of the December!

1. Complete my 12 Changes project

I was definitely hoping to stay more motivated throughout this project, but so far 4 months in I kind of feel like I’m losing my steam with it. Not because I don’t like my goals or because they’re too difficult (they really aren’t) I just haven’t felt motivated to keep up. But I WANT to be. I am just kind of lazy. Let’s see if I can fix this!

2. Finish my 23 Before 23 goals by July 10th 2012 (the last day of the challenge, of course!)

I’ve done surprisingly well on this list considering I thought I had WAY more left to do. I mean, I still have quite a bit left to do but I’ve accepted that some of these goals may not be crossed off. The majority will! I’m in the middle of like half of them and planning for a few more, so hopefully once school is over I’ll be able to spend more time on them.

3. Finish, as best I can, my 101 Goals in 1,001 Days, which ends on September 28th 2012

In my mind, this goal is already practically completed. I just reviewed them before writing this post and did some crossing off of goals that I no longer WANT to complete and tried to remind myself of what I have left.

4. Decide what to do next once all my lists of goals are completed. Another 101? Another birthday list?

Definitely not another birthday list, I think my 23 Before 23 has been my least favorite to accomplish because of the tight time frame. Right now I don’t even know if I want to create another list of any sort because the idea of having NO LIST after 3 years of constantly having them at the back of my mind just sounds freeing. Then again, I loved my 101 in 1,001 so maybe I could do that? We’ll see. I still have time for this one.

5. Read 60 books

I’ve been doing pretty bad with my reading goal, to be honest. In 3 and a half months I’ve read like 9 books. I don’t even know why, I just haven’t put enough of my time aside for it! I currently put my goal down to 50 books and Goodreads still tells me I’m VERY BEHIND. We’ll see what I can do this summer to catch up!

6. Make an effort to blog more about books and music that I love, rather than just using them to fill up days that I don’t know what else to write

This has been an important goal for me because it’s meant trying to steer my blog into a particular direction instead of just random posts every day. I think I’ve done a pretty good job of doing this so far this year- I’ve reviewed most books that I’ve read and often talk about music around here. I’ve also been focusing a lot more on my honest posts and my personal writing. I’ve felt really good about my space lately!

7. Travel 

I have some potential plans for this summer, which was the idea behind this goal. I am determined to go SOMEWHERE in my 4 months off. There is no way I will stay home all that time. I want to get back on a plane and SOON. Florida was a great way to kick off my travel plans in February, but I need more out of 2012.

8. Complete my 365 picture challenge

Still going strong! I’m past day 150 now, you can follow along with me on my Facebook.

9. Take part in the 2012 Young Adult Reading Challenge (thanks again for the link, Miranda!) 

So far 8 out of the 9 books I’ve read this year are YA, which means I am almost 1/4 through this challenge. I guess that means I’m almost on schedule? Except I’d like to read more than 40 books this year and I have a TON of adult fiction to catch up on, so I need to pick up my reading pace that I seem to have left behind in 2011!

10. Make 2012 all about happiness, adventure, taking risks, and accomplishments

I had completely forgotten about this goal, but I think subconsciously I knew this is what I wanted out of 2012. My ‘Little Moments’ of every day life help remind me to stay happy, but as for the rest I think I am naturally just headed in that direction. Again, I feel like these are ideas that often come up in my blog posts which means I must be headed in the direction of risk taking and accomplishment-making. I don’t think I’m anywhere near completing this goal as it’s more of a life goal than just 2012, but I still want to make this year one to remember!

All in all, I’m not doing AS BAD as I had thought, but I do need to stop being lazy so often. I hate that I feel so tired after work all the time & rarely have energy to do other things. I want to change that feeling before my next review!

Have a fantastic weekend!

How are your New Year’s Resolutions going? 

 

Going Vegetarian

At the beginning of the month, I decided that January would finally be the time that I try out vegetarianism for a week. I was pretty motivated to do it, though I honestly had NO idea how I would go about accomplishing it. I mean, I’m a pretty decent cook when I put some effort into it but I had never cut something out of my diet ENTIRELY. Especially not meat; something I have been relying on my whole life.

But people do it all the time and I was determined to be a little bit more independent in the kitchen, so I woke up on Sunday the 15th of January and decided that would be Day One of Going Vegetarian. I think Day 1 was the toughest because I had originally wanted to meal plan for my week and have things prepared by the time that Sunday came around, but I didn’t do any of that. I was SO determined to start on that day,  though, that I managed with the things we had in the house for that whole day plus the entire next day at work until I was able to go to the grocery store.

Since then? I’ve been completely vegetarian. I only cheated *once* but it was at the very end of my first week at a family dinner, and I barely ate meat at all. Despite never having eaten completely vegetarian (or really cooking for myself) I had a surprisingly easy time doing it. My mom was incredibly supportive of this new thing I was trying & she made me two huge pots of vegetable sauce. The sauce is AMAZING and goes on just about everything. I’ve been able to use it so far with pasta and quinoa, but I’m thinking I may use it to make eggplant parmesan very soon too.

Here’s the thing I HADN’T been bargaining on; I’m actually having a lot of FUN cooking for myself. I mean, I’ve never been a cook at all, but I’ve even become one of those people who goes online and prints recipes- AND MAKES THEM.

Here are some of the meals I’ve made since going vegetarian:

 

 

From top left: vegetable sauce- 3 cheese tortellini & raspberries in soya milk- fresh cooked quinoa toped with grilled carrots/green peppers/onions and topped with veggie sauce- sliced strawberries & banana in vanilla soya milk- hummus, v8, vine leaves and gluten free crackers (a little bit of everything lunch)- leak/broccoli homemade soup & a tomato/bocconcini cheese grilled sandwich.

After my first week was over, I decided to include fish back into my diet so that I could have some concrete source of protein. Although my mom is still eating meat and everyone around me is too, I haven’t given into temptation. I mean, there are those moments where I REALLY want what other people are eating, but then I remember just how happy I am right now with all these vegetables in my diet and I’m not ready to change that. I’m realizing that meat is an easy meal to make when I’m in a hurry, but cooking something yummy and vegetarian takes a little bit more thought. You need something that’s going to sustain you, and everyone is different when it comes to figuring out exactly what foods will do that for them.

As of right now, I’m sure that being a vegetarian isn’t going to be a permanent thing in my life. I would miss meat way too much and I don’t want to fully deprive myself of that just yet. I support vegans and vegetarians 100% though, it is a REALLY tough lifestyle to maintain. I’ve learned so much already in my time as a vegetarian/semi-vegetarian, and I’m just really excited to see where I go with this next.

I’m going to write up some important things I learned pretty soon, but I’ve been really excited to share my success story. I’d like to say that I believed in myself a whole lot, but the truth is that going into this I didn’t REALLY. I was motivated to complete the goal, but wasn’t sure I’d actually make it. Now that I’ve done it, I want to continue testing myself to see what other things I can diminish in my diet. Ideally, when I eat meat again (whenever that may be) I’d like it to be on a much less regular basis than before!

Most importantly, I know that I can eat meat now if I want to. When I say ‘no’ to it, it’s not because I’m depriving myself. I genuinely prefer my other potential options. I have SO many ideas for things to make next week, and I’m heading over to my brother/sister-in-law’s this afternoon so that they can show me how to make some of their favorite all-vegetarian recipes. Who AM I right now?!

Have you ever gone vegan/vegetarian? How was your experience? Would you ever try it? What are some of your favorite vegetarian recipes?

#102 On… Posting Every Day

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This month, I vowed to participate in NaBloPoMo because I knew I wouldn’t have time for NaNoWriMo, which I’d been looking forward to for quite some time. It went pretty well for two weeks, although by the end of the second week it was getting really difficult to make enough time to blog. In theory, blogging every day is awesome. But realistically? It’s unrealistic.

Last January, I started to participate in the WordPress ‘Post A Day’ Challenge. It was the 102nd goal to go on my 101 in 1,001 list, and in the last 10 months, I have posted nearly every single day. There are some months where I missed a few days here and there, but in the 4 years I’ve blogged here, I more than DOUBLED my posts this year alone. That is kind of amazing. 

Before starting to post (almost) every day, I didn’t really understand the blog world. I blogged as an outlet for my every day life- I’ve simply always loved to write and keep track of time somehow. In the last year or two, this little place of mine has developed into something I never would have imagined. My writing interested people; people who started to follow my blog, people I’d like to say are like real friends to me now.

I took the last two days off blogging because I simply did not have the time, inspiration, or energy to write. I know that the point of posting every day is to force my brain into writing overdrive, but there are some days where that is just counter-productive. Also? I had a lot of homework to do. I really wanted to get back into writing every day with NaBloPoMo, but as I think about it now I realize that with school, work, and the little bit of social life I can muster… It’s just not always possible. Sometimes I’m too busy living life to write about it. 

The mix of NaBloPoMo and Post A Day 2011 have taught me many things about blogging.

First, it is only by writing regularly that you will become better at it.

Second, there is no point in feeling guilty about taking a day (or two, or three) off blogging. As much as I would love to take an hour a day to come up with something to write about, it’s just NOT always possible. I won’t always have that kind of time.

Third, although I love this little place of mine, priorities always come first. I often made blogging a priority in my life before doing other things, and I realize that’s not right. I have a lot of other things that are very important to do, and by posting every day I would lose sight of that at times.

Fourth, it’s quality, not quantity. I discovered that there were some days I would write just to WRITE. Anything, everything. Sometimes it’s nice to just write whatever comes to mind- I love writing rambling-ish posts- but more often than not they were fillers on days that I was feeling completely uninspired. Those should be blog-rest days

Fifth, posting on weekends is a tricky situation. I love to write for myself, don’t get me wrong, but readers don’t come around so much on Saturdays and Sundays. As fun as it is to write, it’s also fun  to get feedback on your work. It would be more ideal to use my free weekend time to SCHEDULE posts, rather than to publish them right then and there. That way I can be more sure that I’ll have quality writing and it will get some of the attention it (hopefully) deserves!

I still have just over a month to try and post as many days as possible, but I wanted to take a minute to reflect on the journey that it’s been to try and accomplish this goal. It’s been a hit and a miss; NaBloPoMo definitely hasn’t worked out as well as I would have liked, but Post A Day 2011 has been such an amazing experience for me. I think I’ve become an entirely new writer because of it and I already consider that goal accomplished, even though there won’t be 365 posts in 2011. 

I still have an infinite amount of lessons to learn about blogging, writing and prioritizing. I hate *giving up* on goals, so admitting defeat on NaBloPoMo (among other things this month) is not easy for me, but I don’t regret it one bit. I’ve loved getting to know myself by pushing to find inspiration in every day life. I can’t wait to use all of the things I learned in a new year of blogging in 2012. I have great things in mind, and I can’t wait to hopefully continue to grow as a blogger here!

What has blogging taught you as a writer?

#89 Make a budget for school and stick to it

The 89th goal on my 101 in 1,001 list is to budget my student salary in a way that I can save money, pay my bills, have some spending money to go out & not go crazy.

Easy enough right? Ha.

I don’t make enough money for this. But I’m going to give it a go because I need a budget right now more than EVER. My credit card is out of control. Part of me wants to just cut it up, and the other part of me is like “shut up, logical part of Mel,  you need that card.”

Yeah  sometimes I talk to myself. I also wish I could tell you which side was winning.

Anyways, since I’ve got some money issues that I don’t want anymore and since I’m a rather organized person who loves to make lists, I figured I would make myself an official budget that I have to stick with now that I’m only working part-time with school. I’ll start myself off for October with a strict but also kind of easy budget and hopefully, progressively, work my way to a tougher budget as the holidays come nearer. I need to find a way to have the money to buy Christmas gifts… Right now that is just not an option.

Part One

What I am not allowed to buy as of right now: 

1) Books! I do not need more books. Want to know why?

This is my un-read bookshelf. Yes, it’s two rows deep on each shelf. I can’t stop buying books. And here’s the thing: at my work, I CAN BORROW BOOKS. Brand new, waiting to be read. I don’t need to buy all the latest titles, I can borrow if need be. I’ve also got a Kindle and hundreds of books on there too. Don’t worry, I didn’t pay for all these hundreds of books. Not on my Kindle or on my bookshelf. Lots of free stuff. But still.

No more book buying.

2) Anything on Amazon. That place is freaking ADDICTIVE. I’ve got one order being processed & after that… NO MORE.

3) CD’s, DVD’s, TV show seasons. All that stuff. I do not need it- I don’t have any time to watch it.  Current exception: if something is on a ridiculously good sale. I will not buy ANYTHING full priced, but I currently have the first 2 seasons of Smallville on hold at 9.99$ each. They’re usually almost 70$. 

4) Breakfast, lunch, or dinner while I’m at school & work. I have so many yummy choices while I’m at both of these places, but I can easily bring my own food from home. I mean, it’s free, it’s good & that’s all I need to remember. Exception: if I’m going out with friends I can buy food, but I need to make consciously cheaper choices and limit my outings. Like hi not every day or anything. 

5) Clothes, accessories, makeup, unnecessary random products. I’m trying to cover my bases in 5 points here, but basically I shouldn’t go to the mall and walk into Forever 21.

Part Two

What I can still buy, but in moderate amounts: 

1) Coffee. I’m fully embracing my current need/love/obsession with coffee because it’s like the best part of my day. I will however limit myself to one purchase per day, NEVER four dollars or more. This means nothing more than a ‘small’ at Starbucks and sticking to Tim Hortons when I’m at school.

2) Concert tickets. I need concerts in my life to survive, and I’m being incredibly careful already about which ones I go to… But I’m just throwing it out into the Universe that I’m being excessively careful as to which ones I go to.

3) I can’t even think of a third thing that I need, but I’m leaving it open for *emergencies* or also because I’m not a robot and I’m going to want to spend money on something. As long as it’s not expensive and not happening regularly, I won’t feel too guilty. I’m a girl and I like to shop.

Part Three

The breakdown of what my income should look like

I get paid every two weeks, so I have to make every dollar count. When I get paid, I will immediately:

- Put 1/4 into savings. Half of it will go into my University fund, the other half into my regular savings. This officially started this week.

- Use 1/2 for bills. My credit card is really high right now, much MUCH higher than it should ever be. It’s not cool. From this moment, I will be using my credit card for two things only: my cell phone bill and my monthly bus pass. That means that half my paycheck, twice a month, will go to paying my credit card, and all other bills will be directed to the credit card.

- Keep 1/4 for spending. I don’t know how unreasonable that sounds, but this is assuming I get paid about 400 dollars every two weeks. That means I’m keeping 100 dollars for myself for two weeks to buy coffee & to go out. I don’t FEEL like that’s unreasonable, and if I get paid more than that I’ll split the extra cash evenly in my savings & my bills, whichever can use it more. If I see that I’m not using my spending money well (don’t have enough/have too much) then I’ll re-evaluate, but I think that’s a good safety float for right now, considering my income.

Part Four

Final touches to the budget

I can only assume that there will be instances where I’ll NEED to use my credit card or change this basic outline a little bit and I’m okay with that. I don’t know how much of a *plan* this is, but I think it’s a good, basic outline for now. The point is that I’m putting my ideas out there and I feel like I’ll hold myself more accountable just by writing it down here. Whether people have read this far or not isn’t the point, I really need to do this for MYSELF.

I don’t want to be stressed about money. I want to save towards whatever my next big purchase will be. I want to continue to travel, and I want to start being more financially smart. It’s time that I sincerely consider every single one of my purchases. It’s just baby steps for now but I’m  hoping that I can have some will power with this goal and stick it through.

The book currently sitting on my desk, inspiring me to save, save, save!

I have no idea if I’m not doing this budget thing right, but like I said I can only learn by doing. But tell me, what are your tips for budgeting? What’s worked for you, what really doesn’t work? Let me know so I can hopefully use some of your ideas too!